By the time you factor in the married men, fathers, or the elderly, you have a pool of black men less than the size of New York City spread out over 50 states.
This is new territory for me, but I think it speaks volumes that I've already discovered that it comes with certain stereotypes attached.
These are some of the stereotypes I've witnessed, along with things people have actually said to me, or things I've read online.
We know that there will always be people who will never accept interracial relationships and while we enjoy making those people squirm with discomfort, our dating preference is not a statement to change their narrow minds.
Of course, it's possible that a white woman had a traumatic experience with a white man, which makes her look to other races for love and stability in a relationship; but, this is not always the case.
In my eight years of dating white men, I've had equally good and bad experiences, but there was not one single event that made me decide that I'm no longer into white men.
Sometimes people just get bored of dating the same race and want to explore, especially if they grew up in a town that was predominantly one race.This doesn't mean that white girls who date black guys think that they're above black women.This is not to say that white privilege doesn't exist, it just means that white women don't think they can automatically get a black guy just by virtue of being white.I'll start off by saying that I don't intend for this article to speak for all white women/men or all black men/women.I exclusively dated white men for many years prior to very recently entering the interracial dating scene.So perhaps color doesn't matter in this case, as long as a woman can find someone who treats her well.