The barrage of questions surprised me because I had no reservations about giving her my heart.
In my mind, I would have been a fool not to marry Ashley.
To help you assess if your relationship contains these elements, consider the following eight questions before you get engaged. If you or your date does not know Jesus as the primary Source of love, then you will try to manipulate love from one another.
Depending upon performance-based human love is like eating chocolate—it may taste good, but it cannot satisfy you.
And God has actually given us his Spirit…so we can know the wonderful things God has freely given us.… Jesus can work through your heart and mind to direct you toward a good relationship and dissuade you from a bad one.
But people who aren’t Christians can’t understand these truths from God’s Spirit.… However, you can only discern His counsel when you are willing to listen and yield to Him.
but i recently met a really hot black man who makes me wet and weve been flirting alot and talking about alot and he knows im married and doesnt care and i dont care hes married so its all cool and i know he wont talk to my husband about this.
but what sorta worries me is what if me and my black man hook up and its so good i dont want my husband anymore or maybe even dont want to be married to him and just cant stop with this stud black i found and only want him.Fortunately, as I dressed in my tuxedo, God reminded me that I had every good reason to marry Ashley and that He would uphold our marriage.I entered the church that evening with God’s peace inspiring my steps.By contrast, other couples date for years but never find the courage to make a commitment.They so dread marrying the wrong person that they do not marry at all.If you are dating someone seriously, how peaceful do you feel when you think about marrying that person?